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Frequently Asked Questions

Find answers to common questions about Onyx Club

lucide:help-circleGetting Started

What is Onyx Club?

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Onyx Club is an AI-powered private community platform designed for adults in the alternative lifestyle. We connect like-minded individuals and couples through intelligent matching, curated events, and a global atlas of lifestyle-friendly destinations.

Who is Onyx Club for?

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Onyx Club is exclusively for adults 18+ who are interested in or active in the lifestyle community. This includes couples exploring together, singles interested in the lifestyle, experienced community members, and those curious about the lifestyle.

How do I join?

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1. Visit our signup page 2. Complete your profile 3. Verify your account (email + optional photo verification) 4. Start exploring! Membership may require approval to maintain community quality.

Is there a mobile app?

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Onyx Club is currently available as a web app accessible through your browser on any device. A dedicated mobile app for iOS and Android is coming soon.

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How secure is my data?

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Your data is protected with bank-level security: - 256-bit AES encryption for all data at rest - TLS 1.3 encryption for all data in transit - Regular security audits by third-party experts - GDPR compliant data handling

Will my identity be exposed?

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Never. We take privacy extremely seriously: - You control what information is visible - No real names required - Photos can be blurred or private - We never share your data with third parties - You can delete your account and data at any time

Can I use a pseudonym?

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Absolutely. You can use any display name you wish. We don't require your real name anywhere on the platform.

Do you sell my data?

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Never. We will never sell, rent, or share your personal data with third parties. Our business model is based on membership value, not data exploitation.

Can employers or family find me?

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We've built multiple privacy layers: - No search engine indexing - Private profiles by default - Photo privacy controls - Discreet app icon and notifications - Quick-hide features

lucide:help-circleThe Concierge (AI Matching)

What is The Concierge?

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The Concierge is our AI-powered matching system. Unlike traditional dating apps that want you scrolling forever, The Concierge learns your preferences and delivers quality matches—saving you time and increasing compatibility.

How does it work?

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1. You answer questions about your preferences 2. The AI learns from your interactions 3. It suggests compatible profiles 4. The more you use it, the smarter it gets

Is the AI safe?

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Yes. The Concierge: - Never shares your data externally - Doesn't store conversation content - Processes data locally when possible - Is regularly audited for bias and safety

lucide:help-circleMembership & Pricing

Is Onyx Club free?

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We offer both free and premium tiers: - Free: Basic profile, limited matching, event browsing - Premium: Full Concierge access, unlimited matching, priority at events, full Atlas access

How much does premium cost?

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Pricing details are coming soon. We will offer monthly and annual subscriptions. Contact [email protected] for early access information.

Can I cancel anytime?

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Yes. Cancel your subscription anytime from your account settings. You'll retain access until your billing period ends.

Is there a refund policy?

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We offer refunds within 14 days of initial purchase if you haven't used premium features significantly. Contact [email protected] for requests.

lucide:help-circleProfile & Verification

How do I get verified?

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We offer multiple verification levels: 1. Email verification (required) 2. Photo verification (optional but recommended) 3. Couples verification (confirms you're a real couple) Verified profiles get more visibility and trust from other members.

Can I create a couples profile?

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Yes! Couples can share a single profile. Both partners can access the account, and you can indicate you're a couple in your profile settings.

How do I delete my account?

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To delete your account, contact us at [email protected]. All your data will be permanently removed within 30 days per GDPR requirements. A self-service option in Settings is coming soon.

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What events does Onyx Club offer?

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We curate and promote lifestyle events including: - Meet & greets - Club nights - Travel groups - Workshops & education - Private parties

How do I find events near me?

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Visit the Events section and filter by location, date, or event type. You can also set up alerts for events in your area.

Can I host my own event?

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Yes, verified members can submit events for review. We'll help promote approved events to relevant community members.

lucide:help-circleAtlas (Destinations)

What is the Atlas?

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The Atlas is our curated directory of 184+ lifestyle-friendly destinations worldwide, including: - Clubs & bars - Resorts & hotels - Beaches - Spas & wellness centers - Cruises - Events & venues

How are destinations vetted?

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Every listing is: - Researched by our team - Community-reviewed - Regularly updated - Rated for different preferences

Can I suggest a destination?

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Yes! Submit suggestions through the Atlas section. Our team reviews all submissions for quality and accuracy.

lucide:help-circleSafety & Conduct

How do I report someone?

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Email [email protected] to report any concerns. Reports are reviewed within 24 hours and kept confidential. An in-app report button is coming soon.

What happens to violators?

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Depending on severity: - Warning - Temporary suspension - Permanent ban - Reporting to authorities (for illegal activity)

How do I block someone?

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To block someone, contact [email protected] with their profile details. A built-in block feature is coming soon.

lucide:help-circleTechnical Support

The site isn't working. What do I do?

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Try these steps: 1. Clear your browser cache 2. Try a different browser 3. Check your internet connection If issues persist, contact [email protected].

I forgot my password. How do I reset it?

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Click "Forgot Password" on the login screen. You'll receive a reset link via email.

How do I change my email address?

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Contact [email protected] to change your email address. You'll need to verify the new address. A self-service option in Settings is coming soon.

lucide:help-circleContact Us

How can I contact support?

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Still have questions? 📧 General support: [email protected] 📧 Safety issues: [email protected] 📧 Privacy requests: [email protected] We typically respond within 24 hours.

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Last updated: January 2026

Frequently Asked Questions | Onyx Club