Safety & Community Guidelines

1. Consent is Everything

No means no. Always.

• Consent must be enthusiastic, ongoing, and can be withdrawn at any time
• Never pressure anyone for photos, meetings, or activities
• Respect boundaries without question or negotiation
• "Maybe later" is not consent—only "yes" is yes

2. Respect Privacy

What happens in the community stays in the community.

• Never share screenshots, photos, or information about other members
• Don't reveal anyone's identity outside the platform
• Respect that many members have professional lives to protect
• Never threaten to expose or "out" anyone

3. Be Honest

Authenticity builds trust.

• Use recent, accurate photos of yourself
• Be truthful about your relationship status
• Clearly communicate your interests and boundaries
• Don't misrepresent your intentions

4. Communicate Clearly

Good communication prevents misunderstandings.

• State your expectations upfront
• Ask questions if something is unclear
• Check in with partners before, during, and after experiences
• Use safe words when appropriate

Before Meeting

• ✅ Video chat first to verify identity
• ✅ Share your plans with a trusted friend
• ✅ Meet in a public place first
• ✅ Trust your instincts—if something feels off, don't proceed
• ✅ Discuss boundaries and expectations beforehand

During the Meeting

• ✅ Have your own transportation
• ✅ Keep your phone charged and accessible
• ✅ Don't leave drinks unattended
• ✅ Check in with your safety contact
• ✅ You can leave at any time for any reason

Red Flags to Watch For

• 🚩 Pressuring you to skip safety steps
• 🚩 Refusing to video chat or verify identity
• 🚩 Getting angry when you set boundaries
• 🚩 Inconsistent stories or evasive answers
• 🚩 Pushing alcohol or substances
• 🚩 Trying to isolate you from your partner

What We Expect

| Behavior | Description |

|----------|-------------|

| Respect | Treat every member with dignity |

| Honesty | Be truthful in all interactions |

| Consent | Always ask, never assume |

| Discretion | Protect others' privacy as you'd want yours protected |

| Communication | Be clear about intentions and boundaries |

What We Don't Tolerate

| Violation | Consequence |

|-----------|-------------|

| Harassment or bullying | Immediate ban |

| Non-consensual behavior | Immediate ban + potential legal action |

| Sharing private content | Immediate ban |

| Discrimination of any kind | Immediate ban |

| Fake profiles or catfishing | Account removal |

| Solicitation or commercial activity | Account removal |

| Underage individuals | Immediate ban + reported to authorities |

How to Report

If you experience or witness any violation:

1. Email: [email protected]

2. Emergency: Contact local authorities immediately

An in-app report button is coming soon.

What Happens When You Report

1. We review all reports within 24 hours

2. Your identity is kept confidential

3. We take appropriate action based on severity

4. You'll receive confirmation of action taken

5. Serious violations are reported to authorities

Our Commitment

• All reports are taken seriously
• We investigate thoroughly and fairly
• We act quickly to protect the community
• We maintain confidentiality for reporters
• We have zero tolerance for abuse

Physical Health

• Discuss sexual health openly with partners
• Get tested regularly
• Practice safer sex
• Know your status and share it honestly
• Respect others' health boundaries

Emotional Wellbeing

• Check in with yourself and your partners
• It's okay to change your mind
• Take breaks when needed
• Communicate feelings openly
• Seek support if you're struggling

Resources

If you need support:

• National Sexual Assault Hotline (US): 1-800-656-4673
• Local emergency services: 911 / 112 / 100
• Our support team: [email protected]

Communicate First

• Discuss boundaries before engaging with others
• Establish check-in signals
• Create a plan if either person feels uncomfortable
• Debrief after experiences

Protect Your Relationship

• Move at the pace of the slower partner
• Jealousy is normal—address it openly
• Your relationship comes first
• Take breaks if needed

Navigate Respectfully

• Respect that couples have their own dynamic
• Never try to create division between partners
• Be transparent about your intentions
• Understand that couples may need time to discuss decisions

Event Safety

• Follow all venue rules
• Respect "no" from anyone at any time
• Don't take photos without explicit permission
• Report any concerning behavior to staff
• Look out for fellow community members

Alcohol & Substances

• Know your limits
• Never accept drinks from strangers
• Don't engage in activities while impaired
• Consent cannot be given when intoxicated

Onyx Club is committed to:

• ✅ Providing a safe, respectful environment
• ✅ Acting quickly on all reports
• ✅ Protecting your privacy
• ✅ Continuously improving our safety measures
• ✅ Listening to community feedback
• ✅ Being transparent about our policies